SISSY FOR MY WIFE: (Crossdressing, Feminization, First Time)

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No matter how often I assured my wife that I did not want to transition, it took a long, long, long time for her to see that I didn’t want to take that step. My wife was thinking I was having an affair with someone as she thought that the bra belonged to some other woman. Regardless of pink or how frilly or how lacy or feminine his panties are, his sexuality likely hasn’t changed. Gesturing to me with her finger to approach, I did so, slowly at first and then I embraced her with a passion and need I had never felt before. I just put them on wanting to know how they felt and then take it off immediately because I was really scared someone would catch me like that.

After dressing me in a saree, she mumbled, “Well, not bad, but I’m sorry to say you look like a man in drag. More than likely your man has gone his entire life without coming out to someone or talking about this side of him and now the floodgates are open and he is struggling to find the right words to voice his feelings. Some wives will say, ‘have at it but I don’t want to see it,’ or ‘I will not go out with you in public while you are en femme,’ or ‘you must keep your hands off my things.As I grew a little older, I couldn’t really sneak into my sister’s room and from the internet discovered that I was actually a crossdresser who liked dressing up as a girl every now and then. Since her total rejection of my urges to do crossdressing years before I had loaded myself with remorse and guilt and didn’t want to talk about it. You may hope that he picks up on your reaction or non-verbal body language when he talks about crossdressing or when he is dressing up, but there’s a good chance he may be so lost in The Fog that he isn’t paying as much attention to the rest of his world that he normally would. My parents were quite strict so I was extra careful every time I got dressed in my sister’s clothes. I’ve had questions (sometimes snarky) thrown at me, wanting to know why my husband is dressed like a woman.

I don’t see my crossdressing as an identity but rather an expression of an intrinsic inclination toward femininity; its something I do that is a part of my personhood, not what wholly defines it. While I understand and can perhaps identify with much of that tradition conceptually, I don’t feel right claiming it as an identity. Is the love for crossdressing worth losing family members, friends, love partner, respect, gossip and public humiliation/embarrassment? He also may be testing the waters, so to speak, and wanting to see how you will react to him wanting to wear panties before the other stilettos drops.You may feel embarrassed that your big, tough husband who likes to hunt and fish also likes to wear panties. To me, even though I’ve a Mexican background, it would be like saying I am a Muxe when my family isn’t from Oaxaca and I’ve married a woman.